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Articles on mental health, sex work, stigma, boundaries, relationships and more, combining evidence-based knowledge with real-world experience.

Mental health · 28 October 2026

Most people have a confident answer. Most sex workers have a more honest one: it depends on the day.

Boundaries · 14 October 2026

I expected the work itself to be the hard part. Most of the surprises were about everything around it.

Self-care · 30 September 2026

You finally have a free evening and your brain won't stop. Here's why, and what helps.

Burnout · 16 September 2026

Burnout is more specific than being really tired, and recognising it early makes recovery easier.

Relationships · 2 September 2026

Deciding who knows about your work is personal, and stressful to keep deciding. Some questions that help.

Stigma · 19 August 2026

A lot of the shame sex workers feel was handed to them. Here's one way to start handing it back.