Finding a Sex-Work-Friendly Therapist
What to look for, questions to ask, and how to tell early on whether a therapist is a good fit.
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Two Lives, One You
Managing secrecy, disclosure and two identities
Two Lives, One You
Managing secrecy, disclosure and two identities
Workbook
Two Lives, One You
Managing secrecy, disclosure and two identities
Keeping parts of your life separate can be protective, but it takes energy. This workbook explores the cost of secrecy and helps you make deliberate choices about who knows what.
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Who it's for
Anyone working in the sex industry who is dealing with living a double life and stigma & shame, whether that's new for you or something you've been carrying for a while. You don't need any background in psychology to use this workbook.
How to use it
Work through it at your own pace, in whatever order makes sense to you. Skip anything that doesn't fit, and come back to it when you need it.
Like everything on this site, it's written for sex workers, by someone who has done the work, and it never asks you to justify your choices or consider quitting.
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